What do you do when your wife brings her lover home for dinner? Who sleeps where if he offers (or is invited) to stay overnight? If your wife is sick on a night you’ve got a date, should you cancel and stay home with her? Should your girlfriend keep you company if you do stay home? Is it proper poly behavior to bring a lady home for dinner with your wife before taking her to bed or only if considering a serious long term relationship with her? Should a residential triad (one woman & two men for example) sleep all together or alternate between joining the lady in her bed? Emily Post did not cover this stuff, but we will!

Note: the real answer to all these questions is that they involve agreements between those involved in a couple, triad or larger group marriage. All of this is negotiable– preferably before the situation arises…Printed examples of such agreements will be available at this meeting.

1 pm Pot luck lunch Bring something healthy, delicious to share
2-3 pm Get to know each other through a poly type ungame featuring questions designed for quick and deep connection…
3-4 pm socialize in the hot tub.